If you have chatted with a Filipina for more than a month and she still likes. You might be lucky enough to hear the words "I love you!!". When I was on Filipino Kisses I met few girls who said I love you after 4 conversations. There were very few indeed that wouldn't say "I love you!". It is this authors opinion that fililpinas are in general very serious about demonstrating their love. The only caveat I have is for the scammers who will say "I love you!" to get more money from you. In my blog post Challenges of Dating A Filipina I mentioned how a Filipina will never ask you for money if she really loves you.
My wife, in the 3.25 years we dated would get upset at the fact I sent her money. Now understand in that case, I sent her money on the anniversary of the day we met, her birthday and a couple of other times a year for Christmas and Valentines etc...Most Filipinas will strenuously avoid asking for money, except where they couldn't get it from a brother or sister in a foreign country. If you do like a Filipina and she just doesn't have the money to get online to chat with you. You may decide under that circumstance to send her money, again if she loves you. She will tell you she is OK, that is probably one of the best indications of her true feelings for you.
So what does it mean when she says "I love you!"?. In my experience it simply means that they find you attractive because of your interests and hobbies they share with you. If they do say "I love you!" , they are willing to settle down with you for life. Now I know your saying "...But she only chatted with me 4 times in the last month. How can she really love me?". In talking with my Filipina friends, they have confirmed that the reason they create these alliances early on are because they want to guarantee your loyalty to them. If they get you as their boyfriend, it will mean that they won't be having 3 or more children to a drunk husband who might gamble to much or cheat on her. That in addition to her being poor already, of course. Now are Filipino men all so bad? The answer simply is "No!". So for her, there is an element of her finding westerners attractive too, the very same way guys in the west find Asian women attractive.
If you do decide to travel to the Philippines to see you your girlfriend or fiancee. You will notice how well they treat you when your with them. As you will see with time, even if you have an extremely modest lifestyle, you can still find someone who will love you in the Philippines cause you will provide her with a very good chance to enjoy her life with you. She will demonstrate her love to you at every opportunity she can. She will treat you like a king, you will need to get used to her doing things for you cause this is how they demonstrate their love for you.
I hope this helps you to find that special someone out there for you and has opened your eyes to the inner beauty of dating a Filipina. If you have found this article helpful, please subscribe at the top of the page for more updates of this blog.
My wife, in the 3.25 years we dated would get upset at the fact I sent her money. Now understand in that case, I sent her money on the anniversary of the day we met, her birthday and a couple of other times a year for Christmas and Valentines etc...Most Filipinas will strenuously avoid asking for money, except where they couldn't get it from a brother or sister in a foreign country. If you do like a Filipina and she just doesn't have the money to get online to chat with you. You may decide under that circumstance to send her money, again if she loves you. She will tell you she is OK, that is probably one of the best indications of her true feelings for you.
So what does it mean when she says "I love you!"?. In my experience it simply means that they find you attractive because of your interests and hobbies they share with you. If they do say "I love you!" , they are willing to settle down with you for life. Now I know your saying "...But she only chatted with me 4 times in the last month. How can she really love me?". In talking with my Filipina friends, they have confirmed that the reason they create these alliances early on are because they want to guarantee your loyalty to them. If they get you as their boyfriend, it will mean that they won't be having 3 or more children to a drunk husband who might gamble to much or cheat on her. That in addition to her being poor already, of course. Now are Filipino men all so bad? The answer simply is "No!". So for her, there is an element of her finding westerners attractive too, the very same way guys in the west find Asian women attractive.
If you do decide to travel to the Philippines to see you your girlfriend or fiancee. You will notice how well they treat you when your with them. As you will see with time, even if you have an extremely modest lifestyle, you can still find someone who will love you in the Philippines cause you will provide her with a very good chance to enjoy her life with you. She will demonstrate her love to you at every opportunity she can. She will treat you like a king, you will need to get used to her doing things for you cause this is how they demonstrate their love for you.
I hope this helps you to find that special someone out there for you and has opened your eyes to the inner beauty of dating a Filipina. If you have found this article helpful, please subscribe at the top of the page for more updates of this blog.
haaay, what a love story, indeed a very cute story of yours and eve. . God bless you both!
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DeleteThank you for this article, it has given me so much hope. I have been chatting with a Filipina for over 2 months now and we have been in a relationship for a month. We tell one another that we love each other every day as we speak on Skype before she goes to work and again when she comes home. I asked her to teach me Tagalog for when I visit in April so that I can make an effort to communicate with her family and show some respect. Every day she gives me words, phrases and lessons, its fun and we are both enjoying it as it helps us to get to know one another better, we also laugh at the way I make mistakes with pronunciation but I'm getting there. I have spoken to her friends, Mother, Aunt and Grandmother.
DeleteI was a bit dubious about how genuine this 'Love' was and whether I was just another foreigner to take advantage of, but now realise that this is just my insecurities. She has never asked me for money even when her contract was being delayed an extension in work. I offered to send some but she said she would be fine and get money from her Aunt who she lives with even though it was difficult for her to ask.
After reading this article I have more faith now that the relationship is in fact legit and have high hopes for an amazing future with this amazing woman. Thank you again
I am in a similar circumstance with my Filipina. I see that you made this comment a few years ago, so I was curious how things turned out? I am just looking for some encouragement to help with my situation.
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I would advise you guys to consider a Filipina they are very loving in general.
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Yes I agree. I have a beautiful Filipina fiancé and we love each other so much. When I went and visited her and her family in the Philippines last year for 2 weeks in April I was blown away at the hospitality of her and her family. When I arrived at the airport I was expecting 2-3 members but no I had at least 11-12 family members plus her at the airport waiting with smiles and signs. She protected me from the time I was there to the time I left. Her whole entire family treated me with respect and a bunch of her family members addressed me as sir. I can’t wait to marry her and be apart of her family.
ReplyDeleteI'm now dating a filipino going to see her on December. I can't wait get to see her parents her grandmother and two kids.
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